Category Shalini

It was raining in my kitchen! 😳

This past Friday was a whirlwind. I was in my bedroom reading and listening to music so I didn’t hear the impending doom that was happening in my kitchen. Thankfully, my dog started whining and forced me to pay attention. ā€¦

I knew I was in trouble …

I knew I was in trouble when I felt numb while listening to a constituent share details of the violence she was experiencing in her home. This was when I was an advocate for survivors of violence years ago. She…

How to Not Let the News Derail Us

We don’t ever know what someone else is going through. I was sad to learn of Naomi Judd’s death by suicide a few weeks ago. She and her daughter, Wynonna (the famous country music duo – the Judds) were to…

Have We Learned Anything Since 2020?

Sadly this week, I was reminded how anti-Blackness continues to be prevalent in the Asian community. The reminder came from Jennie, a new cast member of the ā€˜Real Housewives of Salt Lake City.’  She came on to the show with…

What a Football Show Can Teach Us About Martyrdom

I regularly watch ā€œAll American,ā€ a show about football in Los Angeles. I’m not into sports but enjoy the show for its characters and definitely Taye Diggs. šŸ™‚ Its main character, Spencer, continues to take accountability for other people’s actions…

Being Ok in this Season of Sadness

Grief has been on my mind lately, especially with darkness starting earlier with the time change. A loss of a way of life. Bearing witness to the fragility of life as I spent a few months with my aging parents. ā€¦

Simple Year-End Practices to Bring Awareness

This past Thursday was Diwali – ā€˜the festival of lights.’  In Sanskrit, Diwali means ā€˜row of lamps,’ and folks use this occasion to line up their homes with lit candles and diyas (ā€˜lamps’). These lamps symbolize knowledge, prosperity, and goodness.…